The Secret of a Happy and Successful Life: A Spiritual Perspective

We are eternal souls living life in our physical bodies. Many people who are not happy with parts of their lives, do not know the secret of how to bring themselves to a life they desire: the ideal relationships, home life or work life, material abundance, physical well-being, ideal global well-being, etc. Most of us observe our lives as they are panning out in our reality and allow our observations to determine how we are feeling. When we allow external events, people or situations to imbue our lives with meaning, we are inevitably setting ourselves up for feeling out of control. This is what is called living conditionally: i.e. allowing external events to make your life for you. What do I mean by this? Continue reading

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You Create Your Own Life

Life is a state of mind. It is what we do with our thoughts and how we feel when thinking about them. Life is what you do to make it happen as it does. Life is what we make of it with our thoughts and the way we consequently feel. Our life is what we think about and what we choose to focus on. We always have control of our life by changing our thoughts so that they feel good.

The Law of Attraction governs everything: Like unto itself is drawn. You get whatever you most focus on, for better or for worse. If you focus your thoughts on positive things, your life will be filled with positive things. Continue reading

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Living Consciously

When you live consciously, you can deliberately create what you want in your life. You can focus your attention on positive thoughts and feelings. The better you feel, the better it gets. The better it gets, the better it becomes. The better it becomes, the better it is.

Because how you feel now is all that matters, this is what you want to achieve: to always feel as good as you can in the present moment. The present moment is what colours your experience now and what determines the quality of your life’s canvas.

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Align First then Move to a Different Location or Job

Places are mere containers for people and cannot, under most circumstances change how a person feels. You take yourself with yourself wherever you go. What determines your degree of happiness is a person’s inner thoughts and feelings. These are contained inside the person and taken with them wherever they go. Feelings are what imbue the places with joy, happiness, success or any other feelings felt. Our minds and hearts contain our thoughts and feelings.

When you move to a different location or change a job without consciously changing how you are feeling within first, before you move, especially if you’re not happy, you can only take your unhappy self with you. You might be happy in the initial stages of being in a new place, but it will only be a matter of time for you to revert to how you felt before you moved. You will attract similar experiences to you because you are still functioning as you did prior to your move. It will be a case of different places, different faces, but the same experiences. If you want things to be different, you have to feel different first.

If you make a conscious effort to align yourself to feel better from within, and as you feel happy you then decide to move, or take a new job, you will in turn take your happy yourself with you. The outcome will of course be very different and will be a positive feeling one.

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Free yourself from controlling relationships

We live in a world that is filled with a great variety and contrast of people, places, experiences and things, etc. and trying to control everything is nigh on impossible. Why do we try control things in the first place? The answer is I think is quite simple: so that we’ll feel good. But controlling all conditions all the time is impossible. There just are too many.

Trying to Control People Close to Us: Parents have been brought up to believe that it is their responsibility and duty to be in charge of and control their children’s lives. With all good intention, they believe that as they are senior in age and have lived more of life, they know what’s best for their children. They therefore control their children’s lives as much as possible in many cases, with the idea of giving their children the best chances in life.

Why then do children often not feel so good when their doting parents are doing the best for them? The answer is that the parents are really doing what’s best for THEMSELVES so that THEY feel good. Continue reading

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Why do I make the same mistakes and how do I stop doing it?

If you’re in a situation where you’re unhappy and you decide to leave it, you take yourself with yourself. This means that no matter how far you physically remove yourself from the person/people or situation you were unhappy in, you’ll inevitably begin repeating the same life scenarios unless you deliberately change your vibrational setpoint*. (* A term coined by Abraham as channelled by Esther Hicks. Your vibrational setpoint is how you feel in the present moment in time and this  setpoint determines what Law of Attraction brings to you.) Continue reading

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Ring on Little Finger Meaning

(This article is part of the “Meaning of rings on fingers” series. Click here to see the parent article through which you can find the meaning of rings on all the fingers.)Narrow 4mm Neverending Celtic Knot Sterling Silver Pinky Ring - little finger ring

In the article “Meaning of rings on fingers“, we discussed that wearing rings in general can convey either a subconscious feeling that a person feels constraint or restriction in the traits that are related to that finger, or it may show that they feel they need strengthening, support or a boost with regards to the traits of that finger. To understand the meaning of wearing a ring on the little pinky finger, let’s look at the traits that are associated with this finger:

Pinky Finger Traits and corresponding Little Finger Ring Meaning

One or more of the following points may apply to someone who wears a ring on their little finger: Continue reading

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Ring on Ring Finger Meaning

(This sub-article is an off-shoot of the “Meaning of rings on fingers” parent article which you can find by clicking here.)

As described in “Meaning of rings on fingers“, wearing rings in general can portray a subconscious feeling that a person either feels constraint or feels a need for a boost with regards to the traits that relate to the finger onto which the ring is on. To understand the meaning of wearing a ring on the ring finger, let’s look at the traits that are associated with this finger:

Ring Finger Traits and corresponding Ring finger Ring Meaning
Before getting into the traits of the ring finger, it’s worth noting that many palmists who would place significance on rings on all the other fingers, wouldn’t consider the presence of a ring on the ring finger to be of any strong significance. This is mostly because the meaning of wearing a ring on this finger has been affected by years of tradition of placing the engagement and marriage ring here, regardless of whether it “feels right” to wear a ring on this finger or not. With the lack of tuning in to what feels right intuitively, the subconscious meaning of ring wearing on this finger is effectively nullified. It’s just what’s done, so people do it. Having said that, there are times, especially in unmarried folk, when a ring on the ring finger may “feel right” here and in these cases it may relate to the ring finger traits. Here are the traits that are linked to the ring finger in palmistry: Continue reading

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Ring on Middle Finger Meaning

(This is a continuation from the article “Meaning of rings on fingers”. Click here to go back there to see what the other finger signify.)
Sterling Silver Round Diamond Fashion Ring by D-GOLD
As discussed in “Meaning of rings on fingers“, adorning the fingers with rings in general can illustrate a subconscious feeling that a person either feels restriction or feels a need for support in the traits related to that finger. To understand the meaning of wearing a ring on the middle finger, let’s look at the traits that are associated with this finger:

Middle Finger Traits and corresponding Middle finger Ring Meaning
The middle finger represents the following: Continue reading

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Ring on index finger meaning


(Clicking here will take you back to the “Meaning of rings on fingers” article to see what wearing a ring on other fingers means)

As mentioned in “Meaning of rings on fingers“, wearing rings in general can show a subconscious feeling that a person either feels restriction or need support in the traits related to that finger. To understand the meaning of wearing a ring on the index finger, it’s helpful to look at the traits that are associated with this finger:

Index Finger Traits and corresponding Index finger Ring Meaning
The index finger represents the following: Continue reading

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